Hello Again!

Well, HELLO everyone!

I can’t believe it has been a week since I have written one of my earth-shattering, life-changing posts. How have you all made it without my wonderful words of wisdom??!?! (totally kidding!)  :)

It has been quite a week.  Lots of summer chaos with all of the kiddos running around, and lots of sibling fights.  Yahoo!

This is really cute, though- last weekend, I set Sammy & Asher in the stroller to take them for a walk so they could look for “doggies” and “cars” (and, truthfully, so mommy could clear her mind for a moment and think!)   We ran into this adorable gaggle of girls…. they recognized the twins from the movie.  They asked if I could take a picture (or 5, or 10) of them with the twins, and one of the girls (thanks, Gabby!) emailed me a copy of the pic.   Can you stand this cuteness?? (the twins AND the girls?)  BOYS…..I have to say….I think this will be what Heaven looks like for you when you are teenagers, no?? ;)

On a serious note, though, Kindred and I have spoken with several great non-profits in the last week who provide maternal care for mommies in Ethiopia.  It has been encouraging to see so many people with such amazing hearts!  Hopefully we will have a big announcement in a week or so…..I will tell you one thing.  We want to change the world.  My boys and their story WILL change the world.  I just believe it.  How can it not??  I think that when people are made aware of needs that exist, most people’s response is to want to help.  To make a difference to someone else.  Because at one time or another, we have ALL been that person who needs help.  And we will again.  Just the nature of this wild ride we call life.

Totally changing subjects here, but William and I were working on a project tonight.  I have these wooden letters that spell out all of the kids’ names.  (Actually, I bought them after we accepted the twins’ referral, but before they were home with us.  Yes, they have just been sitting in the closet. For 1 1/2 years.)  I have these great creative ideas, but then it seems like I don’t ever have the time to execute them, you know??  Well, William and I decided to work on them tonight. They have NO hardware on them to attach them to the wall, so we bought these brackets that we thought would work.  They have the TINIEST little nails!!  It was pretty hilarious watching us work at this.  We decided to get tweezers to hold the tiny nails in place with hopes that then a  hammer could do the trick.  Nope!  We have had little, tiny nails flying all over the kitchen.  Oh well.  It was a bonding moment with my oldest son.  Some Mommy-William time.  And, maybe ONE day, these letters WILL be on my wall! (And, yes, that lovely pattern on the black drawers behind William are courtesy of Samuel & Asher….didn’t even notice it until my flash went off on the camera….they smeared Danimals Yogurt Drink on my furniture.  Yay.)

A Father’s Day Gift & Emerson’s Good News…

Well, duh.  Had I not been previously so engaged with all of my “Mama Drama” this summer (see last post) it would have occurred to me to send this post earlier in the week.  Nothin’ like waiting till the last minute, huh?

ANYWHOO, I have an awesome gift idea for FATHER’S DAY!!  My wonderful hubby is an excellent writer and a phenomenal father.  Combine those 2 traits and you get one hilariously funny book that makes a great gift not only for new daddies, but also new mommies as well (yep..missed that holiday altogether).

Cavemen in Babyland: What New & Expecting Mommies Should Know About New Daddies (So That They Won’t Kill Them)

Here is a little blurb from the back cover:

 New and expecting mommies STOP! Don’t beat new fathers to death with your breast pumps!  Help has arrived.  In Cavemen in Babyland, award-winning writer, public speaker, and professional marriage, parent, and family life coach Kindred Howard gives new and expecting moms the inside scoop on new dads. Compiled from his own “near-death” experiences, Kindred offers new mothers the insight they need to better understand why their significant others do and say all those mystifying things that drive women crazy. You’ll laugh, learn, and have more than your share of “Aha” moments as you read about what’s going through young fathers’ hearts and minds both before and after baby arrives. 

Hilarious, right?? (And, I might add, as a father of FIVE he has had plenty of near-death experiences from which to draw inspiration.  Just sayin.)

You can purchase a signed copy at www.cavemeninbabyland.com or find it on Amazon.com  (And, as an added bonus if you live in and around the Atlanta area and purchase directly through the Cavemen site by midnight tonight, I will make sure the book is hand-delivered to you Saturday (tomorrow) in time for Father’s Day.  As an apology for my tardiness in posting)

And, finally, Emerson’s good news~

We had a brief radio interview at 104.7 The Fish this week (http://www.thefishatlanta.com/).  Emerson is a HUGE fan of Kevin & Taylor in the Morning so we brought her along in case they were in the studio.  Well, guess who we ran into??

Emerson & Taylor

Emerson & Taylor!

Daddy & Emerson with Dan Ratcliffe

Daddy & Emerson in studio with Dan Ratcliffe

In her brief 9 years of life, Emerson has travelled to Ethiopia with us to bring home her baby brothers and met J-Lo.  But, the highlight of her life so far?  Meeting Taylor.  Taylor you rock!  Thank you for being so kind to our little girl!

Happy Weekend, Everyone!

Sammy & Asher have gone “across the pond”

Sweet story about the twins in the Sunday Mirror (UK) from this past weekend.  You go, boys!! :)

http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/real-life-stories/what-to-expect-when-youre-expectings-little-848847#

 

Growing My Baby Boys…

Samuel & Asher celebrated their 2nd birthday on Monday. Yep…TWIN TODDLER BOYS in the “TERRIBLE TWOS!”  Can we all take a moment to say a prayer for me to have strength?  (Or we can all sit in a circle and sing Kumbayah ….whatever floats your boat…we just appreciate any support and good wishes you can send our way) ;)

Brothers Lookin' For Trouble!

Brothers Lookin’ For Trouble!

The last 17 months have been a blur.   My house is a wreck.  We are exhausted.  It is HARD WORK growing Ethiopian twin baby boys.  Especially when they had as rough a start as they did.  And when you already had 3 kiddos in the house ( a 3 year old, 5 year old, and 7 year old when we brought the twins home).  Would we do it again?  ABSOLUTELY!!!! (And hope to sooner rather than later…but shhhh!  don’t tell Kindred yet) ;)

Papa called to sing Happy Birthday!

Papa called to sing Happy Birthday!

The 2 year “Well Check” at the pediatrician this week for Sammy & Asher felt like crossing a finish line.  I was waiting for someone to come running out waving a bottle of champagne for us to celebrate.  We did it.  Both are solidly on the charts for height and weight.  Both are healthy, “normal” (whatever that means), thriving children. It is time to potty-train (oh, Dear Lord….) They truly are miracle children. 

Carson & William

Carson & William

Sweet Emmy

Sweet Emmy

If you are an adoptive parent, you can probably relate to a lot of our fears & concerns the first few months home.  It is emotional.  It is a lot of guess work, a lot of tests, a LOT of bloodwork, a lot of doctors visits.  It is physically, emotionally, and financially draining.  It is just hard.   But it is worth it.  SO, a big huge “shout out” to all those mamas out there- both adoptive and biological- who work so hard to give their babies what they need.  You Rock.  And, if I lived closer, I would bring over a bottle of champagne so we can toast each other. 

There is a line in ”What to Expect When You’re Expecting” where one of the dudes says something like,  ” I may be a lackluster husband, but I am an above average father.”  I love that line…..makes me cry everytime.  (yes, I have seen the movie 3 times already!)

Carson & Asher exploring

Carson & Asher exploring

I may be dropping the ball in a whole lot of areas, but I am pretty darn good at growing baby boys.   Happy Weekend, Everyone!

Brothers Chillin'

Brothers Chillin’

Shout-Outs from J-Lo

Ok, first of all it is strange for me to refer to her as “J-Lo.”  Not even sure if she likes being called that?  When we met her, she introduced herself as Jennifer, so that is what we call her.  Just Jennifer.  However, I needed a short “catchy” title for a new tab on our blog.  It is called “Shout-Outs from J-Lo” and has a couple of links to interviews she gave where she talks about the boys and our family.

Honestly, people keep sending me all these links with interviews she has done and I am not really sure what to do with all of that.   These, however, are a couple of my favorites….. I think they are sweet, and show her sweet spirit towards our boys on set.

Thanks, Jennifer- we appreciate your heart for our sweet boys!!

(SO, if you want to check it out go to our blog (if you aren’t already on it and just get these posts in your inbox): www.oursammyandasher.com and then you will see the tab on the top- far right.  Enjoy!)

Check Out the Latest People Magazine…On Stands Now!!

Go grab a copy (or two) !!  Check out p. 39……

and grin and enjoy our sweet baby boys ;)

-Kindred, Meredith, Emerson, William, Carson, Samuel & Asher

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