Someone Had a Birthday Today!!

My sweet Carson turned 5 today.  FIVE.  Where does the time go?!?!?!  It is so hard to start “letting go…..” he starts KINDERGARTEN this year :(   Ugh.  Although, I have to say he has promised me that he will NEVER marry.  Really.  He wants to live with me forever.  When I asked why he doesn’t want to get married, he said “because I don’t like kissies on the lips.”  That’s what he associates marriage with, so I guess Kindred and I have done an ok job, huh? ;)

Here are a few pics from his big day.  My sweet, sweet boy.  We love you, sweet Carson!!!

Oh, and check THIS out!!  My awesome hubby wrote an article (featuring guess who??) in TWINS Magazine this month…. I thought he did a phenomenal job.  Here is the link:

http://www.twinsmagazine.com/html/JU-JY12twinsfinal.html

*He got a little shout on on the front cover, and there we are at the LA premiere in the Table of Contents, with our friend Kirk.  Cool, huh??

 

 

 

 

 

 

A Father’s Day Gift & Emerson’s Good News…

Well, duh.  Had I not been previously so engaged with all of my “Mama Drama” this summer (see last post) it would have occurred to me to send this post earlier in the week.  Nothin’ like waiting till the last minute, huh?

ANYWHOO, I have an awesome gift idea for FATHER’S DAY!!  My wonderful hubby is an excellent writer and a phenomenal father.  Combine those 2 traits and you get one hilariously funny book that makes a great gift not only for new daddies, but also new mommies as well (yep..missed that holiday altogether).

Cavemen in Babyland: What New & Expecting Mommies Should Know About New Daddies (So That They Won’t Kill Them)

Here is a little blurb from the back cover:

 New and expecting mommies STOP! Don’t beat new fathers to death with your breast pumps!  Help has arrived.  In Cavemen in Babyland, award-winning writer, public speaker, and professional marriage, parent, and family life coach Kindred Howard gives new and expecting moms the inside scoop on new dads. Compiled from his own “near-death” experiences, Kindred offers new mothers the insight they need to better understand why their significant others do and say all those mystifying things that drive women crazy. You’ll laugh, learn, and have more than your share of “Aha” moments as you read about what’s going through young fathers’ hearts and minds both before and after baby arrives. 

Hilarious, right?? (And, I might add, as a father of FIVE he has had plenty of near-death experiences from which to draw inspiration.  Just sayin.)

You can purchase a signed copy at www.cavemeninbabyland.com or find it on Amazon.com  (And, as an added bonus if you live in and around the Atlanta area and purchase directly through the Cavemen site by midnight tonight, I will make sure the book is hand-delivered to you Saturday (tomorrow) in time for Father’s Day.  As an apology for my tardiness in posting)

And, finally, Emerson’s good news~

We had a brief radio interview at 104.7 The Fish this week (http://www.thefishatlanta.com/).  Emerson is a HUGE fan of Kevin & Taylor in the Morning so we brought her along in case they were in the studio.  Well, guess who we ran into??

Emerson & Taylor

Emerson & Taylor!

Daddy & Emerson with Dan Ratcliffe

Daddy & Emerson in studio with Dan Ratcliffe

In her brief 9 years of life, Emerson has travelled to Ethiopia with us to bring home her baby brothers and met J-Lo.  But, the highlight of her life so far?  Meeting Taylor.  Taylor you rock!  Thank you for being so kind to our little girl!

Happy Weekend, Everyone!

Oh, Summer..

Ok.  So, I am sure this is not a news flash to anyone, but summer with 5 kids is H.A.R.D.  Just sayin’..

I don’t have the hang of this yet, and I am not ashamed to admit it…..we need advice!  (Any other somewhat large families out there care to lend some wisdom?!?!)

I thought I had this thing down… Last summer, honestly, was a piece of cake compared to the summer of 2012.  The only thing I can figure is now those adorable 12-14 month old twins who could only crawl are now 24 months, and are R.U.N.N.I.N.G. everywhere.. YES, everywhere…..and, I might add—in 2 different directions. Every.Single.Time.(those who have seen us at the pool this summer can attest to this unfortunate fact). Relaxing at the pool??  I think not.

Okay – time for true confessions with Meredith Howard….. I have thought about buying those “leashes” for kids.  Haven’t done it, but have sure thought about it…..how far I have fallen.  Once a mom of one who thought parents who had their kids on a “leash” needed to be scorned. (yes, how quickly I judged!)….now to TOTALLY understanding (and even beginning to embrace) the need for them.  I just don’t know how it is humanly possible for one mommy to keep up with twin toddler boys running in different directions, while keeping an eye on the other 3 (still young, I might add).  When Kindred is with us, it is a no-brainer.  It’s Man-to-Man Defense.   He gets one twin, I get the other.  Easy.  But, by myself?  Ugh.  There HAS to be a better way…. (waiting for a response here from Kate Gosselin or the Duggers).

Anyway, as for our big announcement for the summer: The “Big Kids” and I are GARDENERS now!  Yes, We have a garden!!  Woo-Hoo!!  (we have no idea what we’re doing, mind you..but we now call ourselves gardeners).  Have you seen the movie, What About Bob? I love that movie.  Maybe it’s the psychology major in me, but I love it. It reminds me of the scene where Bob is roped to the pole in the sailboat and gleefully shouts, “I’m a sailor!  I’m sailing!!”  That’s us…we’re GARDENERS!  We’re gardening!!

Here are a few pics of the master gardeners at work this weekend…..enjoy your summer everyone (and please feel free to give me some tips on how to make it through successfully!) ;)

William planting

William planting

L-R William, Carson & Emerson

L-R William, Carson & Emerson

Carson & William working hard

Carson w/dirt in his eye

Growing My Baby Boys…

Samuel & Asher celebrated their 2nd birthday on Monday. Yep…TWIN TODDLER BOYS in the “TERRIBLE TWOS!”  Can we all take a moment to say a prayer for me to have strength?  (Or we can all sit in a circle and sing Kumbayah ….whatever floats your boat…we just appreciate any support and good wishes you can send our way) ;)

Brothers Lookin' For Trouble!

Brothers Lookin’ For Trouble!

The last 17 months have been a blur.   My house is a wreck.  We are exhausted.  It is HARD WORK growing Ethiopian twin baby boys.  Especially when they had as rough a start as they did.  And when you already had 3 kiddos in the house ( a 3 year old, 5 year old, and 7 year old when we brought the twins home).  Would we do it again?  ABSOLUTELY!!!! (And hope to sooner rather than later…but shhhh!  don’t tell Kindred yet) ;)

Papa called to sing Happy Birthday!

Papa called to sing Happy Birthday!

The 2 year “Well Check” at the pediatrician this week for Sammy & Asher felt like crossing a finish line.  I was waiting for someone to come running out waving a bottle of champagne for us to celebrate.  We did it.  Both are solidly on the charts for height and weight.  Both are healthy, “normal” (whatever that means), thriving children. It is time to potty-train (oh, Dear Lord….) They truly are miracle children. 

Carson & William

Carson & William

Sweet Emmy

Sweet Emmy

If you are an adoptive parent, you can probably relate to a lot of our fears & concerns the first few months home.  It is emotional.  It is a lot of guess work, a lot of tests, a LOT of bloodwork, a lot of doctors visits.  It is physically, emotionally, and financially draining.  It is just hard.   But it is worth it.  SO, a big huge “shout out” to all those mamas out there- both adoptive and biological- who work so hard to give their babies what they need.  You Rock.  And, if I lived closer, I would bring over a bottle of champagne so we can toast each other. 

There is a line in ”What to Expect When You’re Expecting” where one of the dudes says something like,  ” I may be a lackluster husband, but I am an above average father.”  I love that line…..makes me cry everytime.  (yes, I have seen the movie 3 times already!)

Carson & Asher exploring

Carson & Asher exploring

I may be dropping the ball in a whole lot of areas, but I am pretty darn good at growing baby boys.   Happy Weekend, Everyone!

Brothers Chillin'

Brothers Chillin’

Shout-Outs from J-Lo

Ok, first of all it is strange for me to refer to her as “J-Lo.”  Not even sure if she likes being called that?  When we met her, she introduced herself as Jennifer, so that is what we call her.  Just Jennifer.  However, I needed a short “catchy” title for a new tab on our blog.  It is called “Shout-Outs from J-Lo” and has a couple of links to interviews she gave where she talks about the boys and our family.

Honestly, people keep sending me all these links with interviews she has done and I am not really sure what to do with all of that.   These, however, are a couple of my favorites….. I think they are sweet, and show her sweet spirit towards our boys on set.

Thanks, Jennifer- we appreciate your heart for our sweet boys!!

(SO, if you want to check it out go to our blog (if you aren’t already on it and just get these posts in your inbox): www.oursammyandasher.com and then you will see the tab on the top- far right.  Enjoy!)

Check Out the Latest People Magazine…On Stands Now!!

Go grab a copy (or two) !!  Check out p. 39……

and grin and enjoy our sweet baby boys ;)

-Kindred, Meredith, Emerson, William, Carson, Samuel & Asher

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